Can a Highly Sensitive Person be an Entrepreneur?
For many, entrepreneurship is a path filled with challenges, but for a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP), these challenges can feel particularly intense. The pressure to succeed—whether it comes from within or from external expectations—can be overwhelming for those who process information deeply and experience emotions more acutely. And it’s easy to feel discouraged when others seem to thrive under the same conditions that leave us drained.
In this blog post, I’ll share my personal journey as a highly sensitive entrepreneur and offer practical insights to help you navigate the unique challenges of entrepreneurship with heightened sensitivity and resilience.
The Weight of Pressure: My Personal Experience as a Highly Sensitive Entrepreneur
I am highly sensitive and an entrepreneur, which makes me a highly sensitive entrepreneur (aka HSP entrepreneur or some say HSE), so I completely understand the frustration of dealing with pressure, whether it’s self-imposed or comes from outside sources like from another person.
There have been countless times when I set myself a deadline to complete a task, only to miss it and end up feeling discouraged. It’s disheartening to think that I’ve let myself—and sometimes others—down.
As an entrepreneur, I often find myself grappling with the feeling that I should be able to handle things better, especially as a coach who’s expected to have it “all figured out.”
Yep, I'm getting vulnerable here because it's a real part of my entrepreneurial journey and I know I'm not alone. I also know this will help another sensitive entrepreneur and beyond.
When faced with new information or tasks in my business, I can become overwhelmed, particularly when it takes a long time for me to grasp something. Maybe you can relate. I'll give you an example: I find myself reading and rereading just to understand it, which can be so discouraging.
This struggle is compounded by my tendency to compare myself to the next entrepreneur who seems to handle pressure effortlessly. And so it often feels like I’m the only one who finds it so difficult.
Can you relate?
The Burden of Overcommitment as a Highly Sensitive
One major challenge I’ve encountered as a highly sensitive person is the tendency to overcommit in my business. I’ve poured immense effort into various projects and programs, only to find that my hard work doesn’t always yield the expected results.
This has led to a sense of frustration, especially when I’m passionate and consistent but still not seeing the success I had hoped for. I’ve wondered why, despite my best efforts, clients aren’t signing up for my business, or why I’m not hitting the goals promised by courses I’ve invested in.
For instance, I once took an intensive course that promised to transform my business. By the end, I was exhausted and on the brink of giving up. The intense pressure led to adrenal fatigue.
While I don’t regret the experience, I’ve learned that approaching such commitments with more caution and planning is essential for maintaining my well-being as an HSP entrepreneur.
The Pressure to Perform: As a Highly Sensitive
The pressure to perform at a high level, even with careful planning, can feel relentless. It used to be even worse, and though I’ve faced many challenges and learned from them, I’m still highly sensitive at the end of the day.
I remember questioning how others manage to show up so naturally and wondering why it’s so challenging for me.
This constant comparison drained the enjoyment from my work and made me lose sight of my core purpose and values. Instead of feeling fulfilled in serving others and staying true to my principles, I found myself caught up in a cycle of self-doubt and stress.
Understanding the HSP Perspective
As a highly sensitive person (HSP), I’ve come to realize that my brain processes information differently from others. This heightened sensitivity means that I analyze situations and interactions more deeply, which often leads to setting high standards for myself.
It’s important to recognize that this deep processing isn’t a flaw but a unique aspect of being highly sensitive. In the past, I struggled with unhealthy comparisons and negative self-talk.
I used to think that if others could handle pressure and thrive, I should be able to do the same. Now, I’ve learned to give myself grace and take necessary breaks. Allowing my brain time to relax and process information at its own pace helps me manage stress better and avoid burnout.
This gives me a new perspective on how and why I work the way I do, helping me feel more confident about my tendencies as a highly sensitive entrepreneur.
Success and Shifting Mindsets: Embracing My High Sensitivity
One of the most significant mindset shifts I’ve made is accepting that everyone is different. Even though HSPs may share traits, we are still individuals with unique life experiences and influences. Embracing this individuality means recognizing that my path to success doesn’t have to mirror that of others.
I’ve stopped forcing myself to conform to external expectations or the ways others handle pressure. Instead, I focus on honoring my nature as an HSP.
This approach involves showing up in a way that feels right for me, free from undue pressure.
By aligning my work with my strengths, my high sensitivity, and acknowledging my limits, I can create a more balanced and fulfilling journey. That’s my definition of success.
Practical Strategies for Managing Pressure as a Highly Sensitive
To navigate pressure effectively, especially as an HSP, consider these practical strategies:
Set Realistic Goals: Create goals that are achievable and align with your personal pace. This helps prevent feelings of overwhelm and discouragement that can happen often with those with high sensitivity.
Develop a Strategic Plan: Break down larger projects into manageable steps. This can make tasks feel less daunting and help you maintain focus.
Limit Commitments: Be selective about the programs and opportunities you take on. Even if that means limiting your clients. Prioritize those that align with your goals and will genuinely benefit your business.
Embrace Your Unique Traits: Recognize and accept your sensitivity as a strength. This self-awareness allows you to approach your work in a way that suits your nature.
Take Time to Reflect: Regularly assess how you’re feeling about your commitments and workload. Adjust your approach as needed to ensure it supports your well-being and goals.
Do NOT overlook or ignore this step because it's crucial. Following through with it could be what determines whether you're able to fully show up and give your best to your clients and loved ones, or whether you fall short in doing so.
Moving Forward with Confidence in Your Entrepreneurship Journey
Overcoming the challenge of managing self-imposed or external pressure involves embracing your unique traits and making thoughtful decisions.
By focusing on what truly matters to you and aligning your actions with your strengths, you can create a more balanced and satisfying business journey.
Remember, you don’t need to follow the same path as others to achieve success. And you don't need business miracles. You just need to trust yourself and your process and allow your individuality to guide you.
Call to Action
What is one essential business task you can focus on today without feeling overwhelmed?
How can you simplify your approach to new courses or programs to ensure they truly support your progress?
What are the key elements of your business that need to be in place before considering new opportunities?
Reflecting on these questions and making deliberate choices will help you manage pressure more effectively and build a successful business at a pace that works for you.
Being a Highly Sensitive Person doesn’t mean you can’t thrive as an entrepreneur. By recognizing your strengths, setting realistic goals, and approaching your work in a way that honors your nature, you can overcome the obstacles that come with heightened sensitivity.
The key is to honor your needs, set realistic goals, and take a mindful approach to your business journey.
Remember, your path doesn’t have to mirror anyone else’s. Trust in your ability to create a fulfilling and meaningful business that aligns with who you are.
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Jaclyn Castro
HSP Business Coach for Online Entrepreneurs
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